A few alternates you can choose from include:
1. Define Your Goals
What is the good life for you? Having more money so you can afford to stay at home all day, Netflixing and eating whatever you want, whenever you want? One of the toughest things for me to figure out, has been this: what the Hell am I working for? If I was working myself to the bone for food… Food came and gone. My life isn’t happier for that. So it’s not food. Was I working for the weekend? Being able to hit bars, drink myself stupid, and spend the rest of the weekend sleeping and watching TV? Every time I did that, I felt like I was missing out on SO much more life had to offer. Not to mention, hangovers hamper my creativity – and this creativity I cherish above almost anything. So I didn’t want money to party more. Why you want more money is a hard thing to figure out. Some say to travel more. Where? Why? To see the sights? What is it about the sights that fulfills you? Find out what it is.
2. Grow a Garden
Aside from saving gas on trips to the grocery store, buying your own seeds and planting your own crops cuts down on pollution. Not to mention that, because you’re growing your own, you don’t have to worry about pesticides and GMO chemicals most commercial farms put in their junk. Another plus is you can grow exactly what you need. Everything we buy in stores has such a pricey-tag because (oh no!) it had to be cut before being packaged. The horror.
3. Carpool
Aside from that one person we can’t stand – the only downside to carpooling is some people have such small cars. But for cutting down on gas and spending time with good people, certainly makes a strong case for carpooling. It’ll also give you time to get to know more about people, things you didn’t know beforehand. Remember: everybody has a story, even if they themselves aren’t sure about that.
4. Declutter Your Home
I don’t know about you, but I always feel rejuvenated when my home is nice and clean and not a war zone. The key to living a better life is managing your life. There is no other place in your life you can completely control than your home. So why not take control of your life and maintain your dominance? People also say that, when you’re depressed or sad, cleaning helps boost your spirits and health, as well. Another reason for keeping your home clean is, for me at least, it makes me feel more professional. Who doesn’t want to feel like a professional while walking around in their underwear?
5. Swap Clothes
When it’s time to buy yourself or your children new clothes… there is no cheaper option than trading clothes with a neighbour or Tradezone. Not only do you get new clothes (well, new to you), you save $10-40 that some store clothes go for. Plus, it’ll give you a chance to get some face time with strangers – and what’s life if we don’t make the most of each and every experience? You’ll never know who you’ll meet in the course of a day.
6. Barter Better Rates
Bartering is a skill, a world-class skill that separates people who talk… From people who “talk.” You’ll also learn more about how to persuade people, and how to wear a more confident face when you’re dealing with people. Name one person those benefits won’t work for. Let’s face it: sometimes, people are stubborn and you just want them to see your way. Not to agree with you, rather… Showing them your point of view. Bartering with cashiers, who hold onto their money like an iron monkey death grip, are a tough crowd. Wack five or ten or twenty bucks off their original bid, when you’re selling, and you’ve learned the first rule of salesmanship. (I can’t tell you what that is – only people who have been there will understand. So get bartering.)
7. Host a Family Dinner
Unless you’re a black sheep of the family, or ostracised from members for whatever reason – family time goes by like no time at all. It truly is the most cherished, wonderful time for creating memories that will never be the same. So, prolong the good times (and create new ones!) by letting your fam know that you’re going to have a dinner at your place. The catch? It’s a potluck. Everybody brings their own special, unique dish that they and only they are known for. (Mine would happen to be Indian Fry Bread.)
8. Save Raises
When you get a raise, save half of it. Be sure to do the same with each and every bonus you get. The time for satisfying your instant gratification by blowing it on “what you want,” is over. Paying bills and living life become a lot more bearable when you aren’t buying in bulk at Costco and the Price Club. You’ll never get anywhere if you keep doing what you’re doing. Start with your wallet. Plus, with all that money saved, you can go on a budget family vacation much more often. You can share the cab and even hotel rooms with your family – all you have to do is plan in advance and make necessary arrangements/bookings at least a month before so that you can get better prices.
9. Make Breakfast Early
Like, the day before early. For me, waking up in the morning is pure Hell. Having to make coffee, clean up the house from the night before (we have a terrible tendency to not put away dinner plates and go straight to bed)… and waking up in general… is like trying to calm down a dragon by handing it a dish rag. It just doesn’t work. On top of all that, I’m supposed to make breakfast? Forget that. Simple solution: make what I want to eat, in the morning, hours before I go to sleep. Pop it in the fridge or freezer – bam. Instant breakfast.
10. Cherish Experiences
This is the most important key for a better life: invest in experiences, rather than things and items. George Carlin said it best when he said, “A house is just a box of stuff with a roof on it.” We don’t need fancy stuff. What we need is shared time together with our loved ones – the ones who make us happy. A fulfilled life can’t be quenched to its core, by expensive cars or other goodies.
Final Words
Only you can choose to be content – nobody can choose it for you. You have to find your sweet spot in life, manage your time wisely (we all have only 24 hours), and pursue the best things in life. For yourself, for others, with others. Together. Featured photo credit: pixabay.com via pixabay.com
