How to Love the Unlovable

1. Date someone who can delay gratification. In other words, the ability to do an unpleasant thing instead of an enjoyable thing in order to achieve a more-important benefit. Being in a healthy partnership means being able to suck it up and deal with all kinds of unpleasant things (embarrassment, vulnerability, taking out the trash, resisting acting on angry impulses, actively listening instead of playing video games, running a boring errand, etc....

But wait a minute… if we compare the numbers with the statistics in the past, we can observe that war against nations is actually going out of fashion. Again, based on the available figures, the world’s population is blossoming like never before. Let’s leave that issue for a while and take a look at globalization, instead. It’s undeniable that there has been a steady flow of materials written to convey the negative effects of globalization, but come to think of it, this video boldly declares something monumentally positive about globalization....

Pay Attention – Series on Awareness – [MindBodyBlog] Everyday suffering is the easiest to ignore and the hardest to release. Think about how little things can affect your mood: waking up in the morning, choice of food, a negative comment from a spouse or friend, or physical pain. Feeling Average: People’s minds can also get accustomed to pain. Some women and men will look for partners who will verbally abuse them to keep their life painful and dramatic....

All you need are a regular chair, a telephone book, a cutting board, a towel, and a bungee cord (or belt) – you too can taste the great lower-back support: Ingenious invention! Do-It-Yourself Aeron Ergonomic Chair – [Jonathan Aquino’s Mental Garden via Make: Blog]

Because this is not something you normally require, you need to have advice on how to choose the right company. Here are some dos and don’ts regarding crime scene cleanup companies. Dos: Look at the crime location. You will be able to determine whether you need to hire a cleanup crew. Without the hazardous materials, you probably can avoid the additional expense. Ask the police. The officers probably work with a couple of companies and can give you the names of companies they recommend....

Do it with passion or not at all.

What Do These Studies Mean? The British studies conducted to try to predict risk factors for skin cancer zero’d in on the number of moles that a person has on their body. One thing that seems clear is that people who have a greater number of moles on their bodies overall, also have a greater risk of getting skin cancer. Many physicians don’t perform a count during routine exams unless there is a concern....

First, why your body shakes when you nearly fall asleep? Neurologists explained when we start to enter the “Slow wave sleep” stage, we experience a separation between brains and muscles so that we won’t move when we dream. So it’s a normal situation that most of us would experience and it’s just like a disconnection performed in our bodies. It doesn’t imply that we have any hidden diseases. Before we wake up, our minds and muscles will reconnect so it’s also common for us to shake before we wake up....

In the comments, lapka asked if there were any tricks for people who have a hard time showing up on time, and through a little bit of research and a little bit of self-examination, I think I have some answers. First of all, though, it’s important to see being on time as part of your whole attitude towards time. You’re never going to be on time, every time — whether for appointments, meeting big deadlines, or even to catch a movie — if you haven’t put into practice a set of good time management techniques....

I remember the day I graduated high school. I was sure that my identity struggles and career struggles would take care of themselves. My peers and I eagerly went off to college and pursued different paths, but for some reason, I never seemed to find my path as quickly as I thought I would. I changed majors three times, had a slight identity crisis, dealt with some major points of grief, and spent most of my early twenties figuring out what I would finally finish up my college degree with....

They also have a hack you can use when all else fails. Check it out. It’ll make you one heck of a parent! Featured photo credit: Buzzfeed via goo.gl

Taking this under consideration, DigitalRev TV have put together a series of awesome photography hacks that will instantly make you sound like professional photographer! The video also explores and finds out great alternatives to expensive photography gear and techniques, which are affordable and easy-to-follow. The video scripts down many of the awesome ways; here are some highlights of the video: Using a Tripod as a Camera Slider Using a Kitchen Timer as an Auto-Planning Camera Mount Store SD Cards in Your camera’s body cap And, after all who doesn’t all all those professional features for free?...

You can download Alfred either through the Mac App Store or directly through the website (which is the course I’d recommend actually) and while the features included for free are, well, awesome, the real fun comes with spending a little more gets you the Powerpack, which ramps up Alfred to a whole new level of awesome. Frankly, even pulling together this top 10 list I found another half dozen Alfred actions I want to try....

When it comes to decorating the bedroom, you should be more careful than with other rooms of your house, because if the decor is too flashy or stimulating, you are setting yourself up for sleepless nights. Here is a list of ten unique bedroom decoration ideas that you might not have heard of. These ideas will help you choose your bedroom decor and possibly prevent you from making any foolish mistakes....

Life mentors are not only the professional ones we usually think of, like teachers and coaches, but also every day people in our lives. For example, some of your current mentors include your friends, family members, neighbors, and colleagues. Life mentors can positively influence us and even change our long-term future. That one tip from an older cousin, or that one moment of inspiration from your friend can totally change your life’s direction by influencing your attitude, thoughts, beliefs, and behavior....

When you see a pimple rearing its ugly head, it can be tempting to pop it. It’ll get rid of some of the pressure, and maybe the blemish will look a little less obvious for your event. That sense of relief is short-lived. Not only can you cause scars that are difficult to conceal, but popping that zit can also spread bacteria and cause more blemishes. Then there are the horror stories, such as the woman from Austin, Texas, who popped a pimple and paved the way for a nasty staph infection on her face....

1. Engage in small, controlled and thorough discussion of…nearly anything. Introverts, while generally avoiding being the center of attention, completely enjoy intimate conversation. Because they desire to engage in solitary activities, they tend to be proficient in many areas. The difference is that introverts do not feel comfortable showing off that knowledge or talent. If you can create a comfortable situation in which introverts will feel safe expressing their views or opinions, they will very likely have a lot to say, and, better yet, be correct in saying it....

Another point against it is that not everyone from around the world can use it, which cuts you off from several different markets, but some of the other payment systems share this problem, although they run a much tighter ship. Running a successful eCommerce website with plenty of traffic will require a good amount of resources and hard work, so you want to make sure that the customer satisfaction is high and that all transactions go as smoothly as possible....

Yeah… weight loss can be extremely frustrating. But does that mean you should give up? Absolutely not. Sometimes, all you need is a little extra kick in your metabolism and the fat will come sliding off. And this is exactly what weight loss supplements are for. But how do they work? Well, it depends on the specific supplement and the constituent ingredients. Generally speaking, though, weight loss supplements work either by reducing appetite, reducing the absorption of nutrients or increasing fat burning....